Learning to Love Like Christ in Service (John 13) – Aaron Cozort – August 23, 2026

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Good morning. It’s good to have all of you

with us,

especially good to have our visitors with

us today.

We’re grateful for your presence and we

appreciate the time that you’re spending

with us in worship.

Take your Bibles, if you will,

and open them to John chapter thirteen.

We have recently been discussing the topic

of love from First Corinthians

thirteen. This morning we’re going to

spend our time

in this chapter as we consider learning

to love like Christ

in matters of service. Having an attitude

Of service like Christ. As Paul will write

to the church at Corinth in 1 Corinthians

chapter 13,

he will describe love and he will say that

love

is long suffered. It suffers long

and is kind. He teaches us concerning a

number

of things about love.

But as we look at the life of Christ,

we see some of those things lived out.

We see the very love of God lived out in

the life of Christ,

and we see the relationship that we are to

have with

our brethren exemplified in the life of

Christ

and the relationship he had with his

disciples.

As chapter thirteen opens up, you are in

the very last week of the life of Christ.

You are in the events as Jesus will

observe

the Passover feast there in the upper

room.

And you are in a section of scripture

where John is rehearsing for

us for our benefit through inspiration of

the Holy Spirit the things which Jesus

said and did while he interacted with

those

apostles. Now John covers this event

differently than

Matthew, Mark, and Luke.

Matthew, Mark, and Luke focus more on the

meal,

the partaking of that meal, and the

memorial that is instituted after that,

that Lord’s Supper, which we just

observed.

John focuses more on what Jesus said and

what Jesus

did in relationship to the apostles during

that time in the upper room.

If you go back to chapter 12 and you

consider the events that have transpired,

we read back in chapter 12 and in verse

27.

Jesus says, Now my soul is troubled,

and what shall I say? Father, save me from

this hour.

But for this purpose I came to this hour.

As you think about what is going to

transpire in chapter thirteen,

understand that Jesus knew

why was here.

And understand that John is helping us to

fully grasp that idea.

Verse twenty eight says, Father,

glorify your name. Then a voice came from

heaven saying,

I have both glorified it and will glorify

it again.

Therefore the people who stood by and

heard it said that it had thundered,

others said an angel had spoken to him.

Jesus answered and said,

This voice did not come because of me,

but for your sake.

Now is the judgment of this world,

now the ruler of the world will be cast

out,

and I, if I am lifted up from the earth,

will draw all people to myself.

This he said, signifying what death he

would die.

The people answered him, We have heard

from the law that the Christ remains

for ever. And how can you say the Son of

Man must be lifted up?

Who is the Son of Man?

Jesus said to them, A little while longer,

a light is with you. Walk while you have

the light,

lest darkness overtake you. He who walks

in darkness does not know where

he is going. While you have the light,

believe in the light that you may become

sons of light.

These things Jesus spoke and departed and

was hidden from them.

In the days that had preceded this,

Jesus had raised Lazarus from the dead.

Jesus had called Lazarus forth out of the

grave.

And those who were present had witnessed

this.

As a matter of fact, they said to him,

as Jesus said for them to take away the

stone,

he’s been dead all these days.

He’s going to stink.

And yet Jesus will tell them to remove the

stone and will call for Lazarus

to come forth, and he comes forth.

As you get into chapter thirteen

That meal has been observed.

And we read verse thir chapter thirteen,

verse one Now before the feast of the

Passover,

when Jesus knew that his hour had come

that he should depart from this

world to the Father, having loved his own

who were in the world,

he loved them to the end.

As we open up the chapter, as this feast

is about to begin,

as this meal is about to be observed,

Jesus is going to focus on the apostles.

John is going to tell us that Jesus loved

his apostles and that he loved them,

as the text says, to the end.

Jesus’ love for the apostles wasn’t

circumstantial.

It was not temporary.

It was not that which came and went.

Rather, it was that which He loved them

perfectly.

But as you consider this idea,

consider who’s present as John is writing

this.

John is writing this while all of the

apostles are still present.

John is writing this as Judas

is still present. John is writing this

as Peter is present, the one who will

argue with Jesus about whether or

not he will deny Jesus.

The one who will rebuke Jesus when Jesus

is going to tell Peter that he

is going to go to the cross.

Peter will be told by Jesus, get thou

behind me,

Satan. As you consider who is present,

when we read that Jesus loved them to the

end,

consider that Jesus loved them to the end

in spite of the fact that they were

imperfect.

Jesus did not demand a perfect person in

order to love that person.

But then consider as well that among some

of them they were impetuous.

They were not well restrained in some

matters.

John was present. James was were pres ~

James was also present.

These two individuals who seeing something

that they did not approve of will

ask for the opportunity to call down fire

from heaven.

Peter.

The one who would so willingly declare

that Jesus was the Christ,

the Son of God.

The one who would step out of the boat and

walk on the sea to his Lord.

was present.

The same one who would deny Christ this

very night.

But he also loved them in spite of the

fact that one of them present

was impenitent.

Judas, the one who is sitting there,

the one who had through the days as

he was the keeper of the bag for the

apostles,

had been stealing from their funds.

The one who,

earlier on, in the events that had

transpired that week had become.

Quite disgruntled at the woman who had

anointed Jesus,

and Jesus said it was in preparation of

his burial,

and yet Judas desired that the oil that

was used be sold because

it was worth so much and it could have

been given to the poor.

But John will tell us that Judas said this

because he was the one who

had control of the money.

The one who will depart from the

proceedings of this very night

to go out to betray Jesus.

While he is still present, we are told

Jesus loved them

to the end.

As we learn to love like Christ.

Consider first that we need to love the

imperfect.

We need to love the impetuous.

We even need to love the impenitent.

But as the events transpire that night,

John is going to emphasize what Jesus

knew.

And as you’re reading the writings of

John,

when when John says that someone knows

something.

It is significant. Over in 1 John,

John will tell us, hereby do we know that

we love God.

if we keep his commandments.

John will write, Hereby do we know

And he will talk about that we know we’re

saved.

He will talk about a number of things that

we know.

To know something for John was to be

certain of it,

to be assured of it by the testimony of

the Word of God.

To have no doubt whatsoever.

John would write as he concluded his

record of the life of Christ,

these things were written that

you might know that Jesus was the Christ,

the Son of the living God. So when John

tells

us twice in this text about what Jesus

knew.

He’s making it incredibly clear.

There was no misunderstanding.

There was no second guessing. There was no

guesswork involved in what Jesus

was doing. Consider what he says.

Now before the feast of the Passover,

when Jesus knew that his hour had come

that he should depart from this world

to the Father, having loved his own,

~ his own who were in the world,

he loved them to the end.

And supper being ended, the devil having

already put it in the heart

of Judas Iscariot, Simon’s son,

to betray him, Jesus, knowing that the

Father had given all things into his hand,

and that he had come from God,

and that he was going to God.

Consider the things that John outlines.

John says Jesus knew his hour had come.

Jesus knew the time that was approaching.

Jesus knew what was happening that very

night.

Jesus knew the one who would betray him,

who was still sitting there. Jesus knew

that

the Father had given all things into his

hands.

Pause for a moment and consider something.

What would you do to keep someone

you loved from sinning?

What would you do to keep someone

you loved from dying?

What would you do to keep someone you

love?

From despair.

You say, Well

keep from them keep them from sinning,

I I I’d I’d try and correct them.

I I I’d I’d try and arm them. I’d try and

prepare them so that they don’t do it.

Jesus would tell Peter.

This very night before the cock crows,

you’ll deny me three times.

And Peter says, no, Lord, I’ll die for

you,

but I’ll never deny you.

Throughout the time of this week,

Jesus, just as we read in chapter twelve,

will tell his disciples that he’s going to

go.

Matter of fact, as he prepares to go to

Jerusalem,

he says, We must go, that the Son of Man

may be killed.

And yet there’s Judas.

Judas is present. Judas is hearing these

words.

Judas is going to be present this very

night.

And yet Jesus knows what is in Judas’s

heart.

As he looks around the room, as it were,

he sees person after person after person

after person who will

be in despair.

Before this night is over, the next day,

the next day, that will be locked away

in a hiding place come that Sunday morning

when the women arrive

at the tomb in despair that their Lord has

died.

We pause and we think, what would we do if

we knew that those whom

we loved were going to sin, were going to

stumble,

were going to be in despair, and some of

them would even die.

Well, we know what Jesus did.

Jesus prepared them for what would come

after.

Jesus knew that his hour had come.

Jesus knew that the Father had put all

things into his hand.

Jesus knew that he had come from the

Father and was going to the Father.

That being said.

After the supper.

Jesus lays aside his garment. We find

chapter 13,

verse 2, supper being ended, the devil

having already put it into the heart

of Judas Isgariat, Simon’s son,

to betray him, Jesus knowing that the

Father had given all things into

his hand and that he had come from God and

was going to God,

rose from supper and laid aside his

garments,

took a towel, and girded himself.

As you think about what John is telling

us,

perhaps there’s a little bit more than

what we often read.

if we’d understood what Jesus was doing.

See, Jesus wore a garment that we’re going

to read about before this night is over.

He wore a garment that the very next day

the the centurions are going to.

Choose by casting lots who’s going to get

the garment.

We’re told that the garment was one that

was woven from the inside out.

We’re told that the garment that Jesus

wore was

one that was somewhat unique. It was well

made.

So much so that they said, we’re not

dividing the garment.

But also consider that Jesus wore the

garment that was appropriate for a rabbi.

In the first century, at least from what

we’re told from historians and others,

the the the person who walked into the

synagogue,

the one who walked into the temple,

not just everybody was allowed to get up

and speak.

You had to be adorned appropriately.

Now Jesus will point out in numerous

different scenarios how poor he was.

He will describe to the one who said that

he desired to be his disciple.

He said, The the birds of the air have

nests and the foxes have holes,

but the Son of Man has nowhere to lay his

head.

But the garment that Jesus wore was one

that matched

the attire of a rabbi.

We’re told from history that those who

were to speak in the synagogue were

to be adorned much like the priests of old

in that their robe,

the outer garment that they wore,

needed to cover from their shoulders to

their ankles.

They were to be adorned in

a way that demonstrated their position

and their authority to speak.

When you read in the text that he laid

aside his garment,

it doesn’t mean that he took all of his

clothes off.

It means that he took that outer coat,

that outer robe, off and laid it aside,

leaving his inner garment on. For the

Jews,

generally speaking, they wore an inner

garment,

they wore an outer garment. He lays aside

the robe of the rabbi.

He lays aside the robe that demonstrated

his authority

to speak and to teach in the tabernacle,

or sorry, in the temple and in the

synagogue.

And instead,

he binds about himself the towel of a

servant.

As you consider the first century.

Many of the people in that day and time

would have worn sandals,

they would have worn open shoes,

they would have been trotting down dirt

paths,

and so as they arrived in the house of

someone

who was their host, it was common and it

was.

normal that the host would have one of his

servants there ready

and waiting to wash their feet.

It was courtesy. It was what you did.

It wasn’t because everybody needed to have

nice,

sweet smelling feet so they could put

their feet in somebody else’s face.

It was because they were showing courtesy.

But if you consider the idea that they

reclined

at their table, that courtesy

was also distinctly aware of by those who

were present at the table

as to whether your feet had been washed or

not.

But as Jesus had sent his disciples ahead

to prepare the upper room and to

go and to find this location that they

would be shown as the disciples arrived,

as Jesus arrived, as the ~ the supper was

prepared,

and as they per they partook of the

supper,

and now the supper is over, nobody washed

anybody’s feet.

The supper’s now over. The time for the

showing of the courtesy is long past.

But Jesus, knowing that he was going back

to God and demonstrating his love for

them,

lays aside his teacher’s garment,

binds himself with the towel

of a simple slave, and begins to wash

their feet.

He came to them, began to wash the

disciples’ feet and

to wipe them with the towel with which he

was girded.

Then he came to Simon Peter, and Peter

said to him,

Lord, are you washing my feet?

Peter is dissatisfied with the situation.

Peter is disgruntled with what is going

on.

The same one who said, You are both Lord

and Christ.

The one who freely admitted that he was

from the Father.

The one who had been lifted out of the Sea

of Galilee

by Jesus is indignant that Jesus would

wash

his feet.

Jesus answered and said to him,

What I am doing you do not understand now.

But you will know after.

Jesus knew what was about to happen.

Peter didn’t.

Jesus knew that his time was coming to an

end.

Peter didn’t.

Jesus knew that Peter

was about to go through one of

the most difficult experiences of his

life.

And Peter didn’t.

Jesus says, You don’t understand what I’m

doing now,

but you will.

Jesus demonstrated his service to his

disciples,

to the impetuous, to the imperfect,

even to the impenitent.

As he washes their feet.

But as you consider what Jesus is going to

say,

Peter is going to respond to him,

you shall never wash my feet.

Peter is going to, in essence,

rebuke Jesus by stating,

I’m not letting this happen.

Peter considered the act to be beneath his

Lord.

Now we understand Jesus has taught them

many times and Jesus

has demonstrated through many different

things that the greatest in

the kingdom of heaven would be the servant

of all.

But it’s one thing to be taught that,

it’s another thing to be shown that.

And as Peter witnesses that very idea

demonstrated in the actions of Jesus,

Peter says, no, you’re not.

You shall never wash.

Jesus answered him and said, If I do not

wash you,

you have no part with me.

And pause and consider something.

How can refusing to be served

Keep an apostle from having part in

Christ.

Jesus warns Peter.

That the thing that was going on was so

significant.

That was so instrumental that if Peter

refused.

Jesus says you have no part in.

I want you to spend just a moment and

consider how little things in

our minds are incredibly big things to the

Lord.

Simple act of someone being washed,

their feet being shown the courtesy of

being served.

was to Peter something that he would not

stoop to

do to his brethren,

and he would not allow his Lord to stoop

to do to him.

And yet Jesus says, Peter, this is so

significant that if you do not allow this,

you will have no part in me.

We often look at the commands of God.

And we ask, how can that accomplish this?

How can this be that important?

Some will argue that that individuals will

say,

you know what, this is what God commanded,

therefore this is what we must do,

and this is how we must do it.

H how can you be so legalistic?

Jesus will say to Peter, If you don’t let

me wash your mo wash your feet,

you’re not my disciple.

That’s pretty legalistic.

There are things which God deems to be

important that we have no right

to make them casual.

Peter immediately reverses direction.

He says, Lord, not my feet only,

but also my hands and my head.

If if if the washing is that important to

you,

don’t stop with my feet.

Wash all of me.

Jesus said he who is bathed needs only to

wash his feet.

As he’s pointing out, the lesson isn’t

about how your hygiene is.

The lesson is about something different.

He says, the one who is bathed needs only

to wash his feet,

but is completely clean. And you are

clean,

but not all of you.

As Jesus will say these words,

John tells us what was in Jesus’ mind,

for he knew who would betray him.

Therefore he said, You are not all clean.

Don’t you appreciate

How the Holy Spirit seemed fit to help

us to understand the mind of Christ.

by telling John something that John,

who was present in the room, never would

have known.

On his own, that the thing that was in the

mind of Christ when he said,

You’re not all clean was Judas.

Judas who hadn’t raised any objection to

Jesus washing his feet.

as he prepared to deny him and hand him

over to the authorities for

the payment of thirty pieces of silver.

Jesus says not all of you are clean.

But then consider he says

Do you know what I have done to you?

As the text continues,

verse 12, he says, So when he had washed

their feet,

taken his garment, and sat down again,

he said to them, Do you know what I have

done to you?

You call me teacher and Lord.

And you say, Well, for so I am.

Jesus

As he had demonstrated this action toward

them,

had not demoted himself. He had not given

up his position as their teacher

or their Lord. He had demonstrated

something they needed to learn.

He says, You call me teacher and Lord,

you say, Well, for so I am. If I then your

Lord and teacher have washed your feet,

you also ought to wash one another’s feet.

As Jesus demonstrated this, he shows to

them that what they

had failed to do.

What none of them had considered for a

moment to do to the brethren

was the problem.

Because as they observed all of them

walking in,

as they observed the feast being prepared,

as they observed the supper as they

consumed it,

as they observed all of these things,

they were all aware no one had served

them.

But what they didn’t do was choose to

become the servant.

Jesus says, if I then your Lord and

teacher have washed your feet,

you also ought to wash one another’s feet.

For I have given you an example that you

should do as I have done.

When Jesus says you should do as I have

done.

Bear in mind who he’s talking to.

Bear in mind what they’re about to go

through and bear

in mind the position they are about to

hold.

They’re about to go through his betrayal,

his trials, his crucifixion,

his death, and his resurrection.

All true.

But they’re also about to observe in the

days coming forward from this point,

the institution of the Lord’s church,

the giving of the and the pouring out of

the Holy Spirit and the power that they

would receive on the day of Pentecost.

They are about to be given authority,

as Jesus said they would in Matthew

chapter sixteen,

and given the keys of the kingdom.

And as he is preparing them not just for

this night,

and not just for the day to come,

and not just for the interim time between

his death and his burial

and his resurrection, but for their

position as the leaders of the church.

Jesus reminds them what I have done.

you must do. He’s not instituting a

process of washing people’s feet.

He’s instituting servant leadership.

He’s instituting that how they treat their

brethren will determine whether

or not they’re his disciples.

Jesus is going to tell them before the

night is over that the world will know

that

they belong to him by their love for one

another.

He will say as he gives them the

instruction,

for I have given you an example that you

should do as I have done to you.

Verse sixteen Most assuredly I say to you,

a servant is not greater than his master,

nor is he who is sent greater than he who

sent him.

He presents a challenge.

If you think you don’t have to serve,

then you think you’re greater than I am.

For I came to serve. He presents them with

an with an instruction,

he presents them with a challenge,

and he presents them with a blessing.

Verse 17.

If you know these things, blessed are you

if you do them.

As you consider learning to love like

Christ,

as you consider the example that Christ

left for us,

it is an example that demonstrates that

position

and prominence and authority simply

designate someone

as a servant of all.

As Jesus will wash their feet,

he demonstrates his love for them.

Not because they were perfect.

But because he was. He demonstrates his

love for them to the end.

No matter what they did, no matter whether

they handled the situation correctly

or not.

But he also demonstrates what he knew that

they didn’t.

He knew what was in their heart.

He knew what was in their mind.

He knew what was behind their motives.

And he loved them anyway.

In Romans chapter 5,

Paul will write of the love of God.

That God demonstrates his love toward us

in that while we were yet sinners,

Christ died for us.

If you consider your love for your

brethren

This very morning, can you say you love

like Christ?

Or perhaps our love is a little bit more

like Peter’s,

a little bit more like John’s,

a little bit more like James or Philip or

Bartholomew,

where we say, yeah, we love them.

They’re our brethren. But I’m not taking

my garment off to wash their feet.

We love them as long as they’re perfect.

We love them as long as they agree with

us.

We love them as long as they always do

what’s right.

Jesus loved them to the end. If you have

need of the invitation

of Christ this morning to put Christ on in

the watery grave of baptism,

to die to self, to be risen, to walk in

newness of life,

to be washed by Christ. Jesus said,

if I don’t wash you, you don’t belong to

me.

You can do that.

If you’re member of the body of Christ and

you’ve decided to love only

as you’ve been loved by your brethren.

Maybe it’s time to set aside the garment,

to once again adorn yourself as a slave

and to serve.

If you have need of the invitation of

Christ,

it is available as we stand and as we

sing.